我為什麼要寫這個部落格

星期一, 10月 1st, 2012 11:41 am | By Stephanie Woo

B以及M,20個月大,幫助我一起切紅蘿蔔,之後用來製作羅勒湯。

距離上一回在我的部落格貼文,已經有三個半月了,過去這一段時間,我跟兩個女兒一起住到丹佛去了,在科羅拉多州,我完成了我的0-3培訓,搬回紐約,將我們的房子整修,出租,然後搬到巴爾的摩,我的老公開始一個新的工作,孩子們也要開始上學了,真的是很緊張的時間。身為一個蒙特梭利人,同時又是個媽媽,雖然經歷好多的變化以及遷移,我自己本身的轉化是最大的。受訓時,我寫了1000多頁的筆記,學習如何幫助0-3歲的孩子成長,發揮她們生命最大發展潛能,觀察了不同的孩子計有250個小時,將我觀察到的細節都紀錄下來,最後還要通過一個6小時的筆試,以及兩小時的口試。整個過程,是轉化的經驗,不管從母親的角度,還是蒙特梭利人的角度!

我開始寫部落格,因為我的雙胞胎剛出生時,我的母親給我很多的好建議,所以我覺得應該要跟更多的媽媽們分享。之後我又開始寫,因為孩子們的發展令我驚奇,如果給對了環境,她們的能力不可限量。現在,我覺得我要寫,因為我感受到這個年齡段發展的重要性,對於孩子以後的人生,以及以後的人類都有著巨大的影響。0-6歲的孩子,有吸收性心智,將周圍的一切以他自己的生命全數吸收,你給他多少,他就吸收多少,如果你吝於給予,孩子就發展的少。所以在這個年齡,給孩子們最好的環境來進行吸收是最好的,從環境中吸收的一切,將肉身化成為他的一部分,一輩子帶著,成為她們意識的一部分。我在培訓中所學的一切,我用在設計孩子的生活環境上,這就是為什麼在之後的部落格,你將會讀到我請小孩擺設餐桌,清潔,為什麼給她們用剪刀,給櫻桃去子,使用刀子等等。用意不是要訓練她們能耍馬戲,或是父母能夠炫耀孩子有多棒,是因為你即將讀到的活動,其本身的設計都是要來幫助孩子們成為自己生命的主人。身為一個母親,這就是我想要給孩子們的!

Reader Comments (4)

  1. Congratulations on completing your AtoI training! I also completed mine in Vancouver with ChaCha this past summer. I can sense how deeply the last summer of the course has changed you. I look forward to reading more of your adventures with Brooke and Mackenzie.

    星期一, 10月 1st, 2012 2:00 pm | Carrie
  2. Hi Stephanie. Wow you have been very busy. Congratulations on finishing your AMI 0-3 Montessori Training. I would love to do this course myself; alias I missed the last intake. I look forward to reading your future posts, especially how the girls are going at school. I have been looking into this for my girls who are currently15 months. We have the option of with parents or without parents….. I'm a wee bit scared about the with parent option as there is two of them and one of me! Also I wonder how my presences would impact them.

    星期一, 10月 1st, 2012 10:09 pm | Kelly
  3. Carrie,

    Chacha's sister lectured at our course in the summer of '11. How was your course? Judi Orion is a legend in my mind and the course was amazing. I love the materials on your website http://www.beginningmontessori.com/, especially the puzzles. My girls are just starting to become very interested in the parts of things. Did your husband make those?

    Stephanie

    星期二, 10月 2nd, 2012 11:02 am | Stephanie Woo
  4. Kelly,

    Have you been to Montessori Toddler-Parent classes? I just saw this online and thought of you: http://www.howwemontessori.com/how-we-montessori/2012/09/why-attend-a-montessori-parent-toddler-program.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+HowWeMontessori+%28how+we+montessori%29\

    I don't know where you live, but it's could be a great place to start. Have you asked the school you're considering enrolling how they work with mothers with multiples? Usually, when the mother cannot get to both children, that's what teachers are there for – to help!

    Stephanie

    星期二, 10月 2nd, 2012 11:07 am | Stephanie Woo

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