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The best shoes

Wednesday, May 16th, 2012 7:55 pm | By Stephanie Woo

Love these shoes. It is soft, which is excellent for young walkers. And when I say soft, I mean SOFT. There are many baby shoe brands that claim they are soft because you can bend the shoe when you apply adult strength. That does not qualify as soft for a baby’s developing feet.

These Swedish-made shoes are great for indoor walking and small amount of outdoor walking. They don’t come off easily because they wear more like a sock than a shoe. I’ve done my research on shoes and these really are the best. Read more about the best kind of shoes for your babies.

Letting your baby choose her own clothing

Saturday, September 17th, 2011 2:42 pm | By Stephanie Woo

By 7-8 months, you can start letting your baby make some choices. Always give them TWO choices – no more than two! I let my girls choose between two outfits everyday after bath. Mackenzie hates pink/loves green and Brooke loves onesies. It’s amazing how CONSISTENT AND CERTAIN they are in their choices.

Look at the way she yanked that green onesie out of my hand! This baby knows what she wants!

Guidelines for clothing for babies

Wednesday, August 24th, 2011 2:00 pm | By Stephanie Woo

When choosing clothing for children, it is important to consider it from many angles.

1. How does it affect their physiological functions, such as respiratory system, circulatory system and digestive system?

Make sure the clothing is not too tight around the waist and does not pinch them around the arm and leg hole. Babies grow fast, they can be a different size from one day to the next, so have several pant sizes ready. When diapering, do not fasten it so tightly around the baby’s waist that it blocks the belt channel, as mentioned in Chinese medicine. Let the qi flow.

2. How does it affect the way they move – does a particular piece of clothing make moving possible?

This point is critical. Never EVER put your baby/toddler in jeans or jean jackets. The material is so stiff it makes it impossible for children to move in them.

100% cotton onesies are the best for babies over 2-3 months. Unless they are going out for a special occasion, I recommend you put your baby in a 100% cotton onesie 95% of the time, especially when they are learning to crawl and pull up.

3. What is the climate – do we need to protect their skin from the heat, cold or insects?

I’ve seen many mothers from Asia bundle up their babies in so many layers the poor little thing cannot move at all!

4. What kind of fiber will we choose? Is it soft? Does it have uncomfortable seams?

Animal fibers, like wool, down and silk, are very warm for young children but much more difficult to care for than vegetable fiber. It is recommended that all clothing that touches the skin be made of vegetable fibers. They require a little extra care because of shrinkage issues but they are very soft, natural and breathable next to a baby’s skin. If you are so inclined, green cotton that hasn’t been treated is also available. Technological fibers (rayon, polyester, nylon, fleece, acrylic) are very easy to care for – just throw them in the washing machine. But they do not breathe and it is difficult to get odor and stain out of them. For years, parents dressed their children in polyester because it is so easy to care for, but now we know that technological fibers are not good for children. If money is a concern, a good balance would be dressing the child in clothes made of vegetable fibers if the clothing will touch the child’s skin whereas outerwear can be made of technological fiber.

5. What color?

Many clothes are dyed with bad stuff, so newborns, especially, should be dressed in white or light colors.

6. What style?

For example, when buying onesies, does it fit the trunk of the baby? Babies with long trunks or short trunks have different needs.

Brooke wears 18-24 month old clothes now (she is 8 months old). The arm hole and leg hole are all a bit big on her, the length of the trunk is just right, so we dress her so this way to ensure she is comfortable all around.

7. How many pieces should I have for each age?

To be discussed later, but with twins, the answer is A LOT.

8. Is it easy to care for?

Ask yourself, will it shrink? Are the buttons well-fastened or will it fall off?

Remember, do not wash baby clothes with adult clothes. Wash them in separate loads. If you are using cloth diapers, wash them separately from baby’s clothes. I recommend using a baby detergent, like Drelft, or any detergent that is free of fragrance, dyes, etc. (Seventh Generation, All for sensitive skin)